Jumat, 21 Agustus 2009

SELF INJURIOUS BEHAVIOR

What Are Self-Injurious Behaviors?

Self-injurious behaviors are behaviors that people intentionally engage in that cause physical bodily harm to themselves. Self-harm is often carried out when individuals attempt to deal with difficult or overwhelming emotions, and are not sure how to more effectively manage their emotions. Self-injury may take on several forms, most commonly cutting, scraping, burning, biting or hitting. Physical and emotional scars may be left as a result of self-injury. Self destructive behaviors are not to be confused with body piercings or tattoos that are sought for the purpose of self-decoration.

Why Do People Self-Injure?

Based on research, people who engage in self-injurious behaviors claim to experience little to no pain while they are hurting themselves. Rationales for self-injury include feeling anger toward themselves or others, or relieving pain, anger and tension.

What Can be Done if You Are Considering Injuring Yourself?

First, people generally do not wish to hurt themselves, but see no better way of managing their emotions. The suggestions below are for people who have made the decision to quit self-injuring, and are looking for alternative strategies to deal with their emotions. Author Deb Martinson suggests looking at the emotions behind the urge to help determine which strategies you might try. (Anger, frustration, restlessness, sadness, melancholic, craving sensation, wanting to see blood, wanting to focus):

How Can I Break Free From Self-Injury?

Recognizing that there is hope beyond self-injury is the first step, and Counseling Services can be great support. People often fear that self-injury will be seen as shameful or secretive. It does not have to be. A counselor can be the empathic encourager coaching individuals to help meet their goals. A counselor can work with individuals to help increase coping mechanisms, and to provide support as people look more deeply at their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors. By looking at factors associated with self-injury, and underlying concerns, many can begin to break free from self-injury. Additionally, seeking assistance from Health Services or a health care professional may be beneficial, as there is research that suggests that medication in addition to therapy may help those who self-injure.

the example of self injury :


Selasa, 18 Agustus 2009

THANKYOU

BIG THANKS TO WIDYANTO BAGUS PRIAMBODO

Makasih ya bob udh ngebuatin layout blog gw :):):)

Kamis, 06 Agustus 2009

BROKEN

broken heart broken heart broken heart broken heart broken heart broken heart...
kalah kalah kalah kalah kalah kalah kalah kalah kalah kalah kalah kalah kalah...
nyerah nyerah nyerah nyerah nyerah nyerah nyerah nyerah nyerah nyerah nyerah...
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!
hikshikshikshiks...
huhuhuhuhuhuhuhu...

Sabtu, 18 Juli 2009

Rabu, 08 Juli 2009

SMA

Well gw sudah menjadi anak SMA. Finally I can get out from my old school.Now
I'm officialy 35 Senior High School student.Tadinya gw agak ogah-ogahan msk di 35,karena letaknya yg masih tergolong dekat dengan rumah gw dan kebanyakan murid-muridnya anak SMPN 40 jg,jadi udah kayak pindah kelas aj, yg menurut gw bakal sangat membosankan sekali..

Tapi gw salah , ternyata 35 lumayan nyaman jg.
Oh ya,di 35 itu ga ada yg namanya senioritas..bisa mati aj gw kalo 35 senioritas..hehe,so I think i would enjoy studying there :)

gw sekarang sedang menanti-nanti Mos nih..supaya bisa cepet-cepet belajar,karena gw ngejar PMDK(otomatis gw harus rajin belajar nih -.-)biar bisa bikin kedua irtu gw bangga..hehe

Hm..gw tertarik dengan ekskulnya,pengenya sih masuk English clubnya.


Doakan saja semunya berjalan lancar :):)

Minggu, 28 Juni 2009

Michael Jackson - You Rock My World Lyrics

My life will never be the same
'Cause girl, you came and changed
The way I walk
The way I talk

I cannot explain the things I feel for you
But girl, you know it’s true
Stay with me, fulfill my dreams
And I’ll be all you’ll need

Oh, oh, oh, oh, ooh, it feels so right
I’ve searched for the perfect love all my life
Oh, oh, oh, oh, ooh, it feels like I
Have finally found her perfect love is mine

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

In time I knew that love would bring
This happiness to me
I tried to keep my sanity
I waited patiently

Girl, you know it seems
My life is fully complete
Our love is true because of you
You’re doin’ what you do

Oh, oh, oh, oh, who’d think that I
Have finally found the perfect love I searched for all my life
Oh, oh, oh, oh, who’d think I’d find
Such a perfect love that’s so right

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

Girl, I know that this is love
I felt the magic all in the air
And girl, I’ll never get enough
That’s why I always have to have you here, hoo

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

You rocked my world, you know you did
And everything I’m gonna give
And there ain’t nothing we could find
Someone like you to call mine

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REMEMBER THE TIME by MICHAEL JACKSON


(Love...Every time I see you, hahaha)

Do you remember
When we fell in love
We were young and innocent then
Do you remember how it all began
It just Seemed like heaven
So why
Did it end

Do you remember
Back in the fall
We'd be together all day long
Do you remember
Us holding hands
In each other's eyes we'd stare
Tell me

Do you remember the time
When we fell in love
Do you remember the time
When we first met girl

Do you remember the time
(Oh I)
When we fell in love
Do you remember the time

Do you remember
How we used to talk
You know we'd stay on the phone at night till dawn
Do you remember
All the things we said
Like I
Love you so
I'll never
Let you go

Do you remember
Back in the spring
Every morning bird would sing
Do you remember
Those special times
That just go on and on
In the back of my mind

Do you remember the time
(Oh I)
When we fell in love
Do you remember the time
When we first met girl
Do you remember the time
(Oh I)When we fell in love
Do you remember the time

Those sweet memories
Will always be
Dear to me
And girl
No matter what we said
I will never forget what we did
Now baby

Do you remember the time
(Do you remember)
When we fell in love
Do you remember the time
When we first met girl
Do you remember the time
(Oh I)
When we fell in love
Do you remember the time
(Remember my baby)
Do you remember the time
(Cuz I remember)
When we fell in love
Do you remember the time
All in my mind girl
Do you remember the time
(Oh I)
When we fell in love
Do you remember the the time
(Remember my baby)

(Remember the times)
Whoo!
(Remember the times)
Do you remember girl
(Remember the times)
On the phoneYou and me
(Remember the times)
Till dawn
Two or three
What about us girl
(Remember the times)
Do youDo you
(Remember the times)
Do you
Do you
Do you
(Remember the times)
In the parkOn the beach
(Remember the times)
You and me
In SpainWhat about
What about
(Remember the times)
(rolls tongue)

(Remember the times)
Oh...in the park
(Remember the times)
After dark
Do you
Do you
Do you
(Remember the times)
Do you
Do you
Do you
Do you
(Remember the times)
Yeah
Yeah
Whoo!
(Remember the times..remember the times)

My Fav Song

Song Titlle : Because I'm Stupid
Artist/Band : Ss501
Nae meoriga neomuna nappaseo
Neo hanapakke nan moreugo
Tareun sarameun pogoittneun neon
Ireon naema-eumdo moreugettji
Neoui harue naran eoptgettji
Tto chu'eokjoch'a eoptgettjiman
Neoman paraman pogoittneun nan
Chakku nunmuli heureugoisseo
Neoui dwaetmoseubeul poneungeotdo nan haengbokiya
Ajik naui ma-eumeul mollado
Kkeutnae seuch'ideusi kado
Niga neomu pogosip'eun nalen
Neomu kyeondigi himdeul naleneun
Neoreul saranghanda ipgae maemdola
Honja dasi tto CRYING FOR YOU
Honja dasi tto MISSING FOR YOU
Baby! I love you! I'm waiting for you!
Neoui harue nan eoptgettji
Tto kieokjoch'a eoptgettjiman
Neoman paraman pogoittneun nan
Honja ch'ueokeul mandeulgo isseo
Naegen sarangiran areumdaun sangch'eokat'a
Neoui yeppeun misoreul poado
Hamkke nan utjido mothae
Niga neomu saenggaknaneun nalen
Kaseum sirigo seulp'eun naleneunNiga pogosip'ta ipgae maemdola
Honja dasi tto CRYING FOR YOU
Honja dasi tto MISSING FOR YOU
Baby! I love you! I'm waiting for you!
Bye, bye, never say goodbye
Ireohke chapji mothajiman
I need you amu maldo mothae I want you
Paraedo dasi paraedo
Niga neomu pogosip'eun nalen
Neomu kyeondigi himdeul naleneun
Neoreul saranghanda ipgae maemdola
Honja dasi tto CRYING FOR YOU
Niga neomu saenggaknaneun nalen
Kaseum sirigo seulp'eun naleneun
Niga pogosip'ta ipgae maemdola
Honja dasi tto CRYING FOR YOU
Honja dasi tto MISSING FOR YOU
Baby! I love you! I'm waiting for you!

Sabtu, 06 Juni 2009

Hm..ga nyadar nih gw,ternyata besok udah tgl 8 Juni aj..

Besok otomatis umur gw bakal bertambah.Gw bakal beumur 14 tahun besok.

Sebetulnya ada satu pertanyaan yg pengen gw tanyain ke semua orang.

" Apakah umur 14 tergolong tua?"

Rabu, 27 Mei 2009

Addicted to Sour Sally

Gw pertama kali tau Sour Sally gara-gara gw lg baca majalah gadis dan tempat pempotretannya bertempat di Sour Sally,Senayan City.

Trus pas lagi kebetulan jalan-jalan di fx gw ngeliat ternyata disana jg ada Sour Sally nya.Walhasil gw nyobain yoghurtnya..and rasanya...ENAK !!! delicious..hahaha
Nah mulai saat itu I'm addicted to SOUR SALLY.





hmm..yummy..



























Can't Wait

Tgl 28 Mei 2009

Waaaaaaa.....
Tak sabar nih daku...
Rasanya tgl 29 itu lama ya?(padahal besok..wkwkwkwk),padahal kemaren nih kayaknya waktu cepet bgt berlalu..hahaha
Gw pengen cepet-cepet make baju baru gw, pengen cepet nyampe sana trus foto-foto, pengen refreshing, pengen jauh-jauh dari penatnya kota Jakarta(padahal ga beda jauh sama yg mau di datengin), pengen shoping...pokoknya pengen macem-macem deh..

BORING day

Nothing special today...just an ordinary-boring day.
Kerjaan gw hari ini cuma makan,mandi,sholat,nonton tv,baca buku(any books that I found),tidur,dan blablabla..

Sebetulnya gw pengen ke Plaza Semanggi hari ini,pengennyaaaa..
Tapi ga ada yg bisa nganterin gw(huhuhu -______-).
Padahal gw perlu membeli tas kecil buat bawa obat-obatan..hueeee..

Semoga aja nanti ada yang bisa nganterin gw,atau paling ga ada yg bisa di titipan..haha *fingers cross*

Selasa, 19 Mei 2009

Tadi siang,pas pulang sekolah gw dan tasya berniat nyamperin Ajeng(9.2).Ga taunya Ajeng lg ngobrol sama si 'DIA' ,jujur gw udah males ngeliat tampang si DIA karena gw (mungkin)bakal patah hati lg.
Gw langsung aj narik Ajeng,dan setelah sudah agak jauh dari si DIA ,si Ajeng tiba-tiba cerita ke gw soal si DIA.
inilah kurang lebih percakapan gw :

" Eh div tadi si ***** mintain duit gw lagi"

" Gw ga peduli"

" Gw hanya sekadar menyampaikan saja,eh trus tadi gw sempet nanya ke dia"

" ..................................."

" Gw nanyanya : eh *****,lo disukain tuh sama diva,trus dia jwb dengan ekspresi kaget,' ha?iya?serius lo jeng?',trus gw jwb ya ga lah! diva itu udh punya cowok lebih cakep daripada lo,trus dia jwb 'ooh..'

" WTF???!!! LO BILANG GW SUKA MA DIA????"

" Ya kan terakhirnya gw bilang boongan"

" hm..eh tapi gapapa deh ,besok bilang aj ke dia kalo gw beneran suka ma dia."

"oh yaudah,besok gw bilangin langsung"

Dan berakhirlah percakapan gw dengan ajeng soal DIA.

sekian dulu cerita gw
adios amigos..

Senin, 18 Mei 2009

Favorite Quote

Tadi sore gw ngimpi si "DIA",arrrgh..ini pasti gara-gara gw masih ga rela bahwa dia udh punya pacar,sampe kebawa mimpi deh..


Nah setelah gw terbangun dari mimpi yg 'agak' indah itu,gw tiba-tiba pengen cerita ke Sely..

dan jadilah gw sms Sely,ini smsnya :


"Eh sel,masa gw mimpi *****..Haha payah y gw"


lalu beberapa menit kemudian,Sely bales


"mang napa? . koq payah? . ga x . gw tw koq lo cnta bgt ma dy . wjr x klo kt mmpiin orng yg kt sayang . bnr ga see ."


HUUAAA....SELY...YOU'RE REALLY RIGHT MY FRIEND..

ga ada salahnya kita masih mengingat orang yg kita sayang,asal jgn sedih terus walau kita ga bisa dapetin dia..


BIG THANKS FOR SELY


^_^

Kamis, 30 April 2009

FREE

Akhirnya setelah melewati 4 hari yg melelahkan(gara-gara UN), sekarang setidaknya gw bisa bersantai ria sebentar lah...

Sabtu, 21 Maret 2009

CKCKCK

Heran gw,
mikir apa gw y?ampe2 mau nrima cwo kayak gitu.
Bkin hidup gw ga tenang aja kalo pcrn sm dy.
CKCKCKCK SEBEEEEEEEL!!!!!!!!!!!!
Saat ini gw lagi tergila-gila dengan yg namanya KAMERA LOMO.

nah di atas ini adalah salah satu contoh kamera lomo.

Gw berharap bisa membelinya nanti,walaupun harus nabung dulu.Karena harganya agak mahal untuk kantong pelajar seperti gw..hehe..^^

BARUU

Wah saya baru punya blog nih.hahaha